Thanks for the welcome Aud.

I really do feel like we are piecing! We keep having R talks, intitiated by him on how to keep moving forward and not step back. He has been more affectionate (without expecting sex, lol) and has told me he does NOT want me to give him back his rings until I am ready. He wants me to feel comfortable with feeling good about where we are heading. (When he told me about OW, I took them off and said 'you're free, go do what you need to'.) He said he wants me to feel like the commitment is there and not just in the symbol of the wedding rings.

I'm continuing to be good to me and he really notices that. He said he loves having a more confident, assured person around, who is fun and not so snippy anymore. Moi, snippy?

Thanks Jenny! I can always count on you for support. thanks for finding me. I'll keep following your story too, and continue to provide whatever support I can for you.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.