Sues, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Your H has been hit with a MLC. Have you read any books on MLC? I have not, so I wouldn't know any to recommend to you, but it might be worth looking into. I know what you mean when you say it really makes you mad when he disrespects your DD! The mother hen comes out in us. She is just a little girl. He needs to be the adult!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon