Is that making any sense? Part of resolving the issue is also communicating to her about it... or she is going to start making assumptions (probably erroneous ones at that). So be honest.
Does it make sense? I don't know. You see, I didn't think I came across as needy. In the past, I KNOW I have come across as whining and clingy, but in our last several blowouts, I've stated how I felt. I've come right out and said, "there was this one time you physically SMELLED bad from alcohol and BO and it made me sick" - I mean, there's no beating around that bush. I didn't say, "oh, its ok, don't worry, I didn't mind..." I hated it and let her know.
As a post script, she just called me and asked to go out privately later on to talk. As I've said before, I've been known to "let it go" and let it fester. This time, I've kept distance, not answered every phone call from her and kept communication about the kids only. She doesn't like the distance, can't stand that we're not talking and wants to try to smooth things over.
I agreed, but still kept it quick.
Thoughts on this turn of events?
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
