I tallied all the opinions I have recieved so far (not all on DB) 10=stay 6=go. All who say that I should go say I need to give a definitive return date and not leave it open ended.
I think the trust issue needs to be addressed with W. I think I need to go until I figure out transportation. I don't think I should stay away for any more than 60 days (IHD). I will be able to stay in house on weekends and visit family in the meantime over holidays so that helps matters. There will be communication and contact.
I'm going to try and figure out transportation this week, contact lawyer for consultation. If I can figure the transportation issue out at the last minute, I'll stay. I need a 'schedule and plan' on sentencing 12/11 and after that there is no changing anything. That is my deadline. I'll do whatever it takes to get my plan in place.
I will keep everyone posted on any new developments.
_________________________ Me: 38 W: 36 R 16 M 12 2 kids: S6, D4 Bomb: 10/22/07 Sep: 12/11/07 My First Thread, My Story