Thanks Atlas,

i am totally detached, i dont bring up OM at all, we dont really talk right now just text or email, we dont even see each other because i have total custody right now and she goes to the sitters house to spend time with the kids and she leaves b4 i pick them up. I think she has recognized the fact her life is pretty screwed up right now with her comment the other day "my life is falling apart" i also heard she made a comment to a mutual friend that she feels that i would take her back at any point, so does that give her the emotional room to push me as far as i will let her?? dont know but its very tiring to take care of 2 little ones and work full time. Thanks Atlas for your response and i will keep an eye on yours as well and input what i can


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16