H has told me he has gone down a couple of times to do laundry and that he feels bad that it is already done. The thing is, he puts it down the shoot. Does he expect me to sort it out and leave it in a pile? I would feel really pety doing that. I'll see what he does w/ all his clothes when he gets back from his trip tomorrow.
So, sort it out, leave it for him and see what happens. If he freaks out, start doing it again. If he's anything like my W, he's not going to remember it anyway, so just experiment a little. I think experimentation at some point is all that is going to have us make any progress.
