Just came back from my own IC appointment and it was such a downer. IC thinks that she is being close and intimate with me from time to time b/c she misses closeness not because she wants to be with me, which is why she continues to say this M will not work and she is not going to work on it.

I am thinking again about a Retro weekend in January, wondering if anyone can offer suggestions as to how I can ask W to go. IC thinks it's a great idea and that as long as I continue to make progress with my own issues he thinks that it may be an excellent opportunity for us to understand if we want to work on this or not. So how do I cross that bridge?

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce