So to add to the positives, my W started IMing me today and we chatted a while about her car needing tires and her wanting to volunteer her spare time and some other things. It all seemed pretty positive but nothing out of the norm. She said something interesting to me in reference to her need to borrow money from somewhere and me saying that I was sorry that I couldn't help to pay for the tires. She said "i did this all to myself. it's what i get". That floored me some. I just told her not to get down on herself and moved on.
The conversation continued for a bit and I was feeling really good about things, so I asked her what she was doing for Friday night. Her response was "Nothing. Why, did you want to do something?" So I asked her out for dinner and to hang out. She accepted and now I have a date for Friday...
Then she suggested that we get our winter clothes on and go to the beach to take some "fun photos" and "be silly in the snow". I said sound like fun and I'll bring my boots.
I don't expect to be anything but a good friend to her right now and she's making it pretty easy!
Thanks to all who read and contribute to my little saga. I really appreciate you all. Keep the hope alive. Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
