Oh... and more than likely, when you have this convo, it is going to be met with resistance, at first. Stick to your guns, and don't get into a fight about it. (she can't fight without you, so don't let her pull you in. You can divert her by saying... "I have no doubt you feel that way. But, **I** am sticking to what I have said here." And she'll divert again. And you repeat, again, "I have no doubt you feel that way, but...") I bet she will come around in a day or two.
