The other dilemma is she has that xmas party coming up this Saturday. Its something I do look forward to, however, given the current state how I feel (very distant right now), and knowing it would most likely result in the alcohol sex, would it be a good idea to simply tell her I don't want to go? FWIW, asking her not to drink ain't gonna work - I'll get the "you don't control me" lecture. Or do we have to start some kind of dialogue now?
This is where you have to grow a pair. Attending xmas part does not equal alcohol sex, UNLESS YOU ALLOW IT TO. Do you want to attend the xmas party? If so, then go. Do you want to have crap alcohol sex afterwards? If not, then don't. Do you want your W do get drunk at the party? If not, state your preference. Asking someone not to drink is interfering with personal choice. Asking someone to not get drunk is a perfectly reasonable thing to do. If she responds the way you say she will, let her know with body language that her response is inappropriate.
I understand and certainly empathize with your starved state leading to temptation. But the only way to break a bad habit is to stop it. Drunken sex may be good for temporary penile happiness, but it is bad for your R and thus long term penile happiness. An LTR is an LTR, you have to use long term solutions even if they suck in short term
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
