I also got the 'you should date' line...it blew me away. She said I needed to date to make sure that I wanted her....I thought it was one of the most crazy ideas I had ever heard. I replied that if I had doubts about her, dont you think I would have pursued this earlier?
My W went on a 'date'....we are still living together in the same home and I went ballistic on her. She said she did it to make me angry. We'll she did. Maybe it was a ploy to see how I would react or to make me feel jealous. I dont know whats up their sleeves.