Sir Yep, I get ya on seeing the W "all of sudden" having renewed interest in stuff...I guess it is a feeling of freedom from feeling repressed? by you, us?
I would no write a letter unless you ahve trouble communicating like my W and I do. Maybe an email? That way she can think about a response if needed and you can really think about and rethink what to say. Have you apologized for the "controlling behavior" to her yet? I think you have just cant remember.
All I did to get my W to back off on following through with the hearing was point out that I have put together the expense / asset list, it will be a huge waste of money to have each attorney go through it and figure out what is what if we could just go through it first. She could always just stop our conversation and walk out of the room if she felt it werent going well. But, at the end of the day, the pie does not get any bigger by spending attorney fees on things we could discuss, it is the holidays (hi stress) and besides, was she in a hurry fo any particular reason?
All of which lead to her calling her attorney to cancel the hearing.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.