I am looking for some quick insight if anyone can help. It has been a month or so since I have seen or heard from the XW. She called two weeks ago saying that she got some mail for me and wanted to get together to give the mail to me. Long story short, we are getting together for coffee tonight.
I am just in a phase where I just don't know what the deal is and what is going on inside her head? If the goal is to pass along my mail, she could just stop by and drop it off, rather, she wants to meet which will turn into a 2-3 hour conversation about how work is going and more than likely how she doesn't do anything. Then she will ask me 10,000 questions about what I am doing (I try to be open and honest in answering but don't volunteer anything). Then we will have the awkward goodbye and then I will be in a whirlwind for a day or so trying to figure this out. What exactly she is after?
At times I feel like telling her that I just can't do this anymore, but by saying that, I feel like I am closing the door on any possible reconciliation. I would be willing to try again with her, but feel that it needs to come from her first, since she is the one that wanted the D.
Curious to see what you all have to say!
Thanks for all of your support and responses!
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids
