Angelica, I like you are to blame for the breakdown of the family, I read of WAS beginning to realise that they had a part to play.
It's not happening around here, H is just delusional, he believes that he is right and can't accept he had anything to do with the family breakdown, he is no where near seeing the light, so i'm going to save my enegry and switch the light off.
I read your thread reguarly, our sons experience is tough.