W just texted me about Christmas presentts and an "fyi" that she has a job interview in her state. I just said congratulations... The last time she had one she said she was stressed and not looking forward to it. I will be curious (from afar) as to how this one goes. I know we need the $ and that she wants to work, and am just telling myself that this is an important part of her process.
Great Job! It is important. She needs to discover life on her own right now. Just look at it as her finding her independance and growing. No...not independance from you or growing away from you, but growing up. This is not bad at all. Not all women want to be stay at home moms. She's expressing herself.
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Deep down I am saddened that she just has not come running back, but I am really working on my expectations and I do know that this is something she has to do
LOL, yeah....I think we all were saddened they didn't come rushing back to the best thing they ever had!! But were we? Or did we need this smack in the face for us to wake up? It's an awful experience, but it's also a great learning one! Uhm, your working on your expectations or your NON Expectations?
Good job on the no snooping. IT's HARD.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
