3) The dating..In our conversation last night, I asked her because of my thoughts of a secret A going on. W said she planned on dating others in the future. W said to ME that I should date others. I just posted my response to her that I didn't plan on it but who knows what I will think a few months from now. I was honest about it.
That's why you shouldn't have brought it up. In her mind, by telling you that you should date, she assumes that means that you give her permission to date. It's twisted logic, but that way, she doesn't need to feel guilty. Never mind that you said no such thing. But in a way, by even bringing up the subject, you did. If she is going to to, she's going to, and that's the end of the story. And all indications are she is going to. So, how are you going to react when you find out? (And since she thinks it is ok, you will find out, I bet.)
