Then she wanted to start talking about her feelings and stuff and that really threw me for a loop. I think that it was my consistency and not pursuing that let her feel comfortable enough to get to that point. How long it will take to get to that point is different for every person, so be prepared for it to take a while.
Yes! Yes! Yes! She IS starting to feel better around you. I remember it throwing me for a loop too when my H just GUSHED everything out like a dam that just broke! I was stunned and gloriously happy at the same time. I continued to listen and validate everything he said and that behavior of his to talk to me keeps going!
Your last phone call to her was so sweet, it brought tears to my eyes. To listen to her fall asleep...aww. I would say she is really missing you about now. But continue to take things slowly...I know it's hard when you start seeing such positive things. Good work.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
To listen to her fall asleep...aww. I would say she is really missing you about now. But continue to take things slowly...I know it's hard when you start seeing such positive things. Good work. 
