W just texted me about Christmas presentts and an "fyi" that she has a job interview in her state. I just said congratulations... The last time she had one she said she was stressed and not looking forward to it. I will be curious (from afar) as to how this one goes. I know we need the $ and that she wants to work, and am just telling myself that this is an important part of her process. It would mean a big change for her and for the kids since she has stayed at home with them. Even telling the kids that she has a job will signal to them that something is off.
Deep down I am saddened that she just has not come running back, but I am really working on my expectations and I do know that this is something she has to do.
And by the way - I was home this weekend and have totally gotten past the snooping!
