Originally Posted By: haphazard


My question is this: Should I just hold out and let him walk away. He wants to but he doesn't want to and I know I could play things so that he would stay. I just don't think I should. I think I should not do anything to help him make the decision one way or the other.



two questions for you:

1. what does "play things so that he would stay" look like?

2. how does he react, when/if you have told him, "I think you need to go to alchoholics anonymous" ?


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle