pud, yes it makes sense. i guess i need to just forgive myself. i need to remember i was also standing up for the children. i just have a hard time with my w being mad at me. last night was a little more cordial, not much, but somewhat. she did say bye when she left for work. so things are calming down. thanks for your advice.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023