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These books are great. It seems your W. is somewhat receptive to you trying here. My w. would only say: "I know what you're trying to do, and it only annoys me". Best of luck. She wants to work on your R. Believe me, you are so lucky to even hear those words. Tread gently. It will be like trying to feed a squirrel. Don't force anything. Don't rush anything. I see you've now been here over a year. This bites, my friend!