When you live with an alcoholic, it's so hard to avoid making decisions without reference to how they are going to react.
Do YOU want to go to the party? If you want to go, then go. If you don't (because you don't want to face the alcohol sex thing) then don't.
If you do go, and the opportunity for sex comes up, you can decide then,
The hardest thing for me was trying to figure out what was the "right" thing to say to him or the "wrong" thing. I geared my responses and readtions to how I thought he was going to react.
They say the alcohol is addicted to alcohol. The partner is addicted to the alcoholIC.
