I dont know.. I just know when my W gets served she will be livid. In addition, she is the type of person that holds grudges forever, Ive seen her throw away 2 best friends and never speak to them again because of it.
On the flipside, I know I cant just let her continue to hurt our D.
Last night D called me crying again. "Daddy!! Mommy is calling me a baby and being mean to me!!" I heard her mom in the background say "TELL THE F*CKIN TRUTH YOU LIAR!!!!!"
At which my D just screamed again. Again through her tears she said she wanted to come live with me, and that only pissed her mom off even more.
I asked to speak to W and I calmly said "lets not think about you and I, lets focus on our D, what can we do to make this easy on her? W responded "WHAT THE F*CK DO YOU EXPECT ME TO SAY?!?!"
I replied, I expect you to come up with an idea on how we can help our D instead of just cussing me out. She went off again.
I told her that this conversation wasnt going anywhere and to let me speak to D again. I finally got her calmed down and suggested she write in her diary or take a hot shower to calm down.
My W is out of control guys.. she is bi-polar and not on meds. I think she is manic right now because OM is there so she is either really really happy or super pissed.
Im just scared that being served D papers is going to send her over the top and eliminate any feeling of love she has for me.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07