I'm with Woog and John, craig. I think it was totally correct of you to stand up for yourself and her inconsistent behavior. Maybe your approach, as you said, wasn't the best. But don't backslide on sticking up for yourself. She will respect someone who is takes a strong stand more than she would someone who does and then says how sorry they are for doing it. Does that make sense?

I would just let it go, and practice on how you can approach it better next time, ok?

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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