I'm not a guy... but there were some activities that I excelled at as a kid. When you can't do it as well as you did... I was the same way. I gave it up. That's why athletes retire. If they are smart, they do it while they are on top.
And pushing IC to talk about it right now? Eh. Ms. IC, I think I'd just give him a bunch of hugs, some hand squeezes, and tell him if he wants to talk about it, you'll be more than happy to listen.
