It's up to you... I read "Love must be tough" and it gave me inspiration for my letter.
It's all about "letting them go" to get the freedom they think they need. Once they have it.. they supposedly come flying back.
Maybe our scenarios are a little different.. I think I'm just now starting to "act" as my letter said I would.
I left the door open, but I also quantified it with "If you want to work things out.. we can talk.. I can't make any promises though."
You might want to work on detaching a little more though.. talk to your L.. work through some of that stuff.. then think about writing the letter or email.
I don't want to push you one way or the other.. it's all how you feel.
