If I went into a bar and some strange dude gave off the vibe my 2bx gave off when I was thinking about getting laid, I wouldn't have dreamed of approaching him. Every one of my feminine "seek someone reasonably 'safe' with whom to have sex" alarms would have sounded. I got sexually hurt in my marriage because I turned off those alarms when I said "I do."
Ignoring alarms early in the R... how many of us did that?
I know I did.
And I wonder how many LD people considered a lot of sex early in the R to be an alarm, but they said to themselves, "Oh well, that will change..."
