Nah... serving the papers is just that. It takes a while for things to finalize. It can also be vacated if it comes to that.
Did you see my letter? I basically told my W that while I still love her, I can't allow myself to be subjected to her punishment any longer.. if she wants to work things out.. that's fine.. we can talk about it.
Basically told her I was moving on.. if she wants to come back, the door is open for a while. Ball is in her court.
Not that it's helped.. I've had to use other tactics, but I was able to at least express where I am with her.
