WAW says "I'm filing for D", but no papers

[SirPrizeMe]

CVA, How to GAL with 4 kids? In my case, the kids are at home, I am the one who is away.

I see them on the weekends, we have fun. I had them the entire weekend last 2 weekends. Dinner & a movie, hanging out, go to the library, do homework, read together, y'know, regular family stuff.

When I am not with them, I do other stuff. Go visit friends. I went shopping last night - new jeans, cologne, some cool shirts for my boys, early xmas shopping (early for me). Bball game. Workout. Call people (but resist talking about R with anyone). Apartment/house hunting. I'm planning the guys weekend away.

BD, that sounds like good advice, stay cool, don't expect any quick movement, keep the pressure off,. . . Keep fingers crossed....

Today... another excellent chance to show her my best! I get the kids for dinner, which means we meet. I will be friendly. Cheery. I will look good and smell good. I will look for something nice about her and mention it. I will smile. I will watch her eyes. I will have time to chat, I will listen to what she has to say. I will leave her with something memorable.

[Poison thought: when she offered to tell me where the key was, on Thanksgiving, this was after she changed the locks, why didn't I accept her invitation? Fear! Fear of being arrested! Ah well. What's done is done. I'm still going...]