new here. Feel like dying

[cat03]

That's scary that they let people like that work with cops, what a quack of a C!! how awful. Apparently he's been telling him "his"side of the story and is happy to hear what he wants to hear from her. You have all the right to tell him, in a calm manner, that you dont' think this C is helping you both, that if he's willing to work on this M that you both can find a new C together.

About telling him about the google history, DON'T do it, it only backfired on me, trust me, nothign good will come off, you will be accused of controlling him, of snooping, of smothering him and violating his privacy.
He isn't in the right frame of mind, and since right now he has you pegged as "unstable" then he will listen to others, (haircut), don't let that get to you.

I do think from time to time about a lot of stuff that went on when my H was seeing ow, but bringing it up will only darken the waters, I would get it off my chest but at what price? it is hard not to stew about it, but think of it like this "is the hill I want to die on?" somethings arent' worth your time.

If he insists in staying, just go about your business, heck , now and then go out for coffee and he can stay with the kids then. Let the lawn reach virgin forest status and dont' mow it, if he likes it trimmed he can do it.