it's the mentality of "move on instead of fixing what's broken" that plagues many men. No matter what you say to a depressed person it wont' sink in, if he really has depression only a psychologist can help, it took my H to hit rock bottom before he admited he needed professional help, it is hard for most men to go to the dr. Keep GAL to detack, seems you are in the righ state of mind and strong. We all have our down days, and that's ok, it is bound to happen, but then we can always pick ourselves up and reclaim the day for us.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
