Thanks Jen and Cat for your advice, it does make sense and I will heed.

Azhira, i sent the email to h on Monday thanking him for his kind words etc didn't hear back, but didn't expect to.

I have a lot more to look forward to at xmas than i ever expected. This is the first Xmas that I haven't stocked the cupboards full of food and drink, but hey.

I have been VERY proactive on a couple of fronts:

a) Started to decorate a bedroom and have organised things without H's help
b) Couple of Jobs H had left unfinished in the house, i have started to complete them.

I feel a lot better with my attitude generally.

H still contacts me daily and has confided in me twice this week about job and health concerns.

I have a salary increase today, totally unexpected, so i'm really chuffed.

This is what my horoscope says today, its really spooky.

"The good relationships that you have maintained with people on the job are likely to pay off today, as an unexpected raise or other opportunity could come your way. Contact with friends and family members are also likely to be warm, supportive, and satisfying. Bear in mind that efforts you have put in to these relationships have benefited not only you, but the people around you as well. Continue as you are"!

Have a great day.

XD


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07