Thanks guys...

So the $64,000 question is:

How do I DB while filing for divorce? Im in a predicament that I need to protect my D, but the only way of doing that is through a divorce.

How will my W know I still want to be with her if I am the one ending the relationship?

Im afraid that once she gets served, she will never think of me the same way again and that will dash all hopes of a future reconciliation.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07