Get Me On A Smoother Ride....Need Advice #7

[Rob1231]

You didn't blow it at all Sue. Your H knows that a time is coming when he's going to have to face the consequences of his choices. I'm glad you didn't allow the convo last night to escalate into an argument. Is it possible that he's trying to push you away/intimidate you so that he doesn't have to answer questions and have an R talk? If he can be an a$$ and push you away, he won't have to deal with this until he's ready to.

I could not have said it better. He's going to make it tough to have this conversation - but you have a right to have it, regardless. Don't let his alien spew intimidate you or change your agenda for the conversation - remember, you have two huge things on your side: You are in the right here, and you are not off your rocker with The MLC Crazies.

I hope you get away this weekend and relax some. He needs someone to drop him on his head big time!

Agreed on both points! You DESERVE a chance to unwind and "detox" - if not for yourself, do it for D3, who needs you strong and able to shower love on her while Daddy sulks around in his pathetic state.

EDIT: Missed your last couple of posts while I was typing mine. You're right on target, Sue, with everything you said. Have the conversation when YOU are ready - whether that is tonight or next month. As long as it's on your timeline, with you in control of it - it's good.

Do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get away this weekend. And have a wonderful time. It'll do you more good than you can realize to be away from Mr. Negativity, and around people who really appreciate and support you.