Oh that shut the F up thing REALLY irritae's me. When my husband was angry he said this a couple time's. It really hurt and was flabbergasted at what to say to that. But when he had a R talk I told him if he ever said that to me again he could just leave for good. Because I didn't want the kid's to think that is acceptable behavior. : ( He hasn't said it since I told him that.
Wow Sue he sure is angry. I don't think you blew it. I think you did set yourself up for a possible relationship talk though. I know this has been said but I really really think you need to shake things up a bit. It's like he knows your routine. You get up, go to work, pick up your daughter, then go home. You need to GAL more then ever with this anger of his spewing at you. Could you create some mystery maybe. Like going out and not being there when he gets home on one of his early nights. Then don't answer when he calls you. Let it roll to voice mail. I know this don't work for everyone. But I think the GAL really saved my marriage. He didn;t see this unhappy moping person who he could predict and just think ahh she is boring I know her routine. She will always be here to pine for me and just be here. I started changing big time and was happy because I was becoming more secure with myself. He noticed that big time. If there was a school function I just went alone. We would come home all happy and talk about the fun we had. I can tell you when something has come up the last few months he is grabbing his shoes now asking what time we have to leave at.
