I have decided to wait until he gets home becuase i didn't want it to ruin his trip.

I may even try to talk instead of the letter but, it will be one or the other

HL- that is a good suggestion and I appreciate the input. This is why i decide to post it here first.

Thanks Guys!

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez