Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

A couple of weeks ago, when OM was out of the picture, received the below advice:

While living in the same house, you should not 'go dark' right now. My counselor always told me 'Nurture what you have'.

What about now? He is back and they are head-over-heels in love again and they can't wait to get with each other. My wife keeps throwing out the "you're my best friend, I don't want to lose you" comments.

Continue to nurture this? But in her mind all I'm nurturing is our friendship. She ends up getting the best of both worlds. I'm here, validating our "friendship" while she has phone and text conversations with the OM who is validating their soul-mate status.