I think you know that the drunk sex is bad, it's not what you really want. You've told her you want more and the only way she's going to believe you is if you no longer accept less. That simply means say no to the sex you don't want.
Can you do that?
It is difficult due to the fact that I've been starved for so long, then comes the opportunity to have not only sex, but mind blowing no restrictive sex. Everything goes. Yet its alcohol induced.
In the past, this wasn't a problem because the "going out" sex was usually peppered with in between sex. It was an added bonus.
Its hard drawing a line in the sand and enforcing boundaries - I have been more vocal in my concerns, but as everyone here knows, actions are louder than words.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
