Funny enough I was re-reading some of my posts yesterday and one of the things I mentioned was how getting into another R would certainly help boost the PMA. But it would be a band-aid, just temporary relief.
The real "cure" is to become that stand-alone individual who receives validation and self-worth from the inside. Okay, it means you have to kick the addiction to getting it from the spouse but as long as you know the goal you can at least make headway.
Still easier said than done.
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