The other thing that I have brought up to H and he has been very receptive is to renew our vows once he comes home from deployment for good in May. We got married in Monterey CA on a cliffside and I would like to have our pastor marry us *again* in our church. He said that he does want to do this, but I'm not going to bring it up again until he's home for good. I don't want some big "to do" or anything. Just family at the church. I think it would be a good *start over* for us.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10