The other thing that I have brought up to H and he has been very receptive is to renew our vows once he comes home from deployment for good in May. We got married in Monterey CA on a cliffside and I would like to have our pastor marry us *again* in our church. He said that he does want to do this, but I'm not going to bring it up again until he's home for good. I don't want some big "to do" or anything. Just family at the church. I think it would be a good *start over* for us.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10