Yoyo, sorry such an ugly sight had to put a damper on your day...
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I got to thinking if I was the OW and I encountered the W I would be so embarassed I would have looked the other way. I guess they don't have a conscience.
Odd you mentioned this. OW always seems calm and collected when I am around her and I mentioned this to OW's H last week. He said "Well, that's not how she is feeling, she usually cries after she sees you, feels so bad that she hurt you...". Excuse me if I don't hand her a tissue....
Our own spouses will try to rationalize their betrayal, and often outright hatred, of someone they vowed before God to love, honor and cherish till death.
So, is it any wonder that the OP can rationalize their own transgressions against us, the LBS?
I'm surprised she didn't look away or look down because she knows she tried and failed to steal your husband. If you caught her leaving the office with a computer, would she look you in the eye?
I guess they don't have the same ethics as we do. I guess it's war for them. They take the official spouses to be in a pedestal too. Why else would someone be comfortable to run for a established second position? For them I guess it's just watching a Royal parade.
I would not have only run her over but I would have reversed back over and then on again just to make sure I did a good job - well there go my christiam ethics....but sometimes a girl had gotta do what a girl has gotta do!!!!!!! (And bugg@r the insurance).
As I found out yesterday- life is too short.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
the very first time the OW messed with my H, we all worked at the same place. Everytime I would meet her in the factory she would glare at me.
This time I seen her at convience store a couple of months back. I walked in and again she glared at me. Said "f**k you" without saying it.
It's like where does she get off acting like I am the one that has done her wrong? My life, my H she is stepping in to take over. What have I ever done to her?
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
My opinion on their attitude is that they know they don't have the real thing. More than likely they feel like a distraction and feel they're on shaky ground. Some are cocky as hell from what I've seen/read because they feel they've "won" but really, what exactly is that they think they've beaten us at?
I don't feel beaten at all. I'm dealing with reality and proving to myself and to those around me what I'm really made of.
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07
