jak - I like this letter a lot also. Very honest and open and a wake up call, I hope.

About the timing - I would wait until after his trip unless you feel it's THAT urgent. Only because he may get kind of resentful that instead of getting to "enjoy" his trip, he's "having" to think about this stuff.

I'm the queen of procrastination though so I may not be the best person to listen to \:\) .

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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