I am actually glad you feel like you can sleep. You need it.
Bear with me here, but don't judge H *too* much regarding D3. He is a great father, he just isn't in a place to be the normal great father that you know and D3 loves. He is battling A LOT of demons and that is time consuming. Time for Mama to step up and be all that you know you can be....stay strong...and remove you and D3 from any crankiness. You don't have to do this in an 'angry' way (saying "C'mon D3, Daddy's cranky, let's go do something else"..), just do it, and remain neutral. Sometimes positive is darn near impossible. Nothing wrong with neutral.
I am speechless. lwb is amazing. This is perfect.
When dealing with a cheating husband/father, is there a better mommy than lwb? OK, somebody, please let me know.