OJ ~ I have been suspecting for some time because of her resistence and the fact she gets pissed at him so quick when things don't go her way. She has ZERO respect for that man. I mean, there's venting, which we all do here, and then there are NASTY HABITS that need to be broken. I've tried to bait her before but she just gets sarcastic with me. Basically after her revealing post today, I've got her dead to rights. If she listens, she can change. She is insecure - that's the bottom line - but she does NOT get what she has DONE to him and I sometimes wonder if she cares. She is a tough lady and not in a good way either BUT she CAN be. IF she turns that toughness around and lets it work FOR her instead of against her.