Good idea man.. I can tell you from past experience that its very easy to fall for another girl and feel all your pain and hurt lifted right off of you... Except, it comes back later once the infatuation wears off.

I honestly think that if I didnt get in a R after W left me, that I would probably would not be here today. I would of healed and never thought to desire another R with her again.

My pain in August (from a lack of healing) caused me to reach out to W to try and reconcile.

I think you are going about this the right way Jar.. I also think you will be one of the few that will reach your goals.

You're a DB Pimp in my book!


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07