All I'm saying is that some of the advice given on this BB is the opposite of helpful to HD folk because everybody tries to suggest all sorts of "reasons" why you might not be f*ckable when the truth is you're only not f*ckable within the context of your current relationship. The only thing you have to do is realize that that is true. Getting rejected over and over again f*cks with your mind. As you may recall when I first started dating again I couldn't even believe that men who were saying fairly outrageously flirtatious things to me actually wanted to have sex with me. I thought they were just being NICE. I'm still not 100% confident even though my lovers have been beyond uber-validating. There are a bajillion reasons why somebody might not want to have sex with you. All you need to do is figure out the one reason why you want to get laid.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
