W8ing, I love hearing from you. \:\) I still think that you're in a tougher sit than me because of the work thing. I think about how hard it must be, esp. with the family business. Stay strong woman!

About the Christmas gift, I'm not looking for a reaction, I'm just trying to act as-if for me. Like RCR posted on my first thread.

It seems to be working for me, if not for her. She likely won't be coming if we go to St Louis to be with my family, and I doubt that she will stay if we have Christmas here. I'm still going to act as-if. I'll quietly invite her down there, or to stay here. Her decisions are her own.

Maybe it will add to the "safe environment for her later..."


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My H seems to be going through the same type of mood swings


We could use a magic 8-ball for this... I think it would be about as predictable.


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The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory