My mom found out today about my hospital trip over the weekend. I really have never told her much through all of this including during the separation. She is the kind that will lose sleep fretting. She also found out that dh wasn't there. She was sorta funny. She held her tongue and then couldn't any longer. She let me have it about him. How many chances do you give him? When is it time to say enough? I will be fine without him. I felt bad as I could see she was very worried about me and the situation. Motherly thing. I would be worried about my daughter too I guess.
I honestly think that even with years apart dh will never work on his issues. It just may be part of his character. But I am certainly not going to make this easy for him. He will have to pull his weight with his child or not see her.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!