All you can do is GAL and work on you. Let her have space and let her go. Gosh man, go to the gym, make plans with your guy friends. Start doing things for YOU.
Don't give her books, don't try to convince her of anything. She will only do the opposite. The more you try to control this situation, the more she will push you away.
Keep in mind... weakness, neediness and depression are not attractive.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
