Heck, it could be held at the Arctic Circle and it'd still be a warmer place to be than with my spouse.
LOL I love spunky nocode. Can we all get the same room at the hotel? Not for any sex stuff, just because we are all so lonely and the company (someone actually enjoying OUR company!) would be oh so nice.
LOL I love spunky nocode. Can we all get the same room at the hotel? Not for any sex stuff, just because we are all so lonely and the company (someone actually enjoying OUR company!) would be oh so nice.
LOL! I love being spunky -- just call me spunkadelic!
No doubt about it: the company would be joyous, warm and most excellent!
Yes... and I know you already know this, but it's a loving "letting go." Doing it for their happiness and that you finally feel ready to move on with your life... and are determined to be happy wherever life leads. Hey, life is short, you might as well choose happiness. Also, that you would never want anyone "with you" unless they wanted to be with you 100%. That wouldn't be fair for anyone.... and you'll always be friends because you do have a history and kids together.
And no matter how sad you feel, be happy, be busy, and smile and remind your husband, "Life is good..." and you are ready to move on and meet it and you are excited about that!
Think it, live it, and it becomes it...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
ROOT, can I tuck you in my pocket and keep you with me? You pop in and say your brilliant things....
I can honestly say I truly want H happy. Not just because he is the father of 2 of the most important people in my life, but because I married him, I still love him (always will in some form), and want to see him find happiness, like he had with me. If its without me, I accept this now.
I also want myself happy. Especially after this summer, I found out how important it is to lead a peaceful and happy life. I will find that again, wherever it may be....
I agree, I don't want to be the consolation prize.