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NoCodeBlues #1285077 12/05/07 02:40 AM
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Heck, it could be held at the Arctic Circle and it'd still be a warmer place to be than with my spouse.


LOL I love spunky nocode. ;\) Can we all get the same room at the hotel? Not for any sex stuff, just because we are all so lonely and the company (someone actually enjoying OUR company!) would be oh so nice.

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And that brought me to Page 40.........aaaaaaaaaaaah

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Hi lwb,
You still there?


M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
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Originally Posted By: lwb
LOL I love spunky nocode. ;\) Can we all get the same room at the hotel? Not for any sex stuff, just because we are all so lonely and the company (someone actually enjoying OUR company!) would be oh so nice.


LOL! I love being spunky -- just call me spunkadelic!

No doubt about it: the company would be joyous, warm and most excellent!


Me: 49
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S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.
NoCodeBlues #1285099 12/05/07 02:59 AM
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Hey Hope. \:\)

Coming up (maybe next week..) are you free for lunch one day? I know you said mid-December, so we're good if you can't go...

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I agree, H needs some real fear that I am gone.


Yes... and I know you already know this, but it's a loving "letting go." Doing it for their happiness and that you finally feel ready to move on with your life... and are determined to be happy wherever life leads. Hey, life is short, you might as well choose happiness. Also, that you would never want anyone "with you" unless they wanted to be with you 100%. That wouldn't be fair for anyone.... and you'll always be friends because you do have a history and kids together.

And no matter how sad you feel, be happy, be busy, and smile and remind your husband, "Life is good..." and you are ready to move on and meet it and you are excited about that!

Think it, live it, and it becomes it...


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
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Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
I think an East Coast DB jamboree sounds great


No way, California... tonight I took the dog for a walk and it felt like spring! \:\)


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
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ROOT, can I tuck you in my pocket and keep you with me? You pop in and say your brilliant things....

I can honestly say I truly want H happy. Not just because he is the father of 2 of the most important people in my life, but because I married him, I still love him (always will in some form), and want to see him find happiness, like he had with me. If its without me, I accept this now.

I also want myself happy. Especially after this summer, I found out how important it is to lead a peaceful and happy life. I will find that again, wherever it may be....

I agree, I don't want to be the consolation prize.

Thanks!

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Anyone up for Killington, VT the first week in February? I'll be there skiing. Not quite the tropics, but I'm sure the hot tubs get steamy.


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Actually Lwb, you don't need me in your pocket. You already know all these things...


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
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